November 30, 2021 – Service of Hope and Healing in Advent

A couple weeks ago, the holiday edition of my favorite home furnishings catalog arrived in the mail. Its pages were enticing; each one portrayed a festive setting. There were tables set with clean white dinnerware and red berries, charcuterie boards covered with meat and cheese, and glasses filled with wine. There were no people in the pages, just perfectly imagined settings for the gatherings we might have. I chuckled as I placed the catalog in the recycling. In the short time I had paged through its contents, my expectations for the season had risen and fallen. The cheery images had brightened my mood, but any thoughts of recreating those idyllic settings faded away quickly. They were not within my reach.

The days leading up to Christmas can feel complicated. We’re surrounded by advertising and cultural messages that tell us it’s time for joy and celebration. There are long lists of things to do. But for those experiencing loss or separation from loved ones, the holidays can be difficult. Sometimes long-buried grief or unfulfilled hopes rise to the top. We might feel out of sync with all that’s going on around us. A festive Christmas feels out of reach.

Next Tuesday, the care ministries team will host an Advent Service of Hope and Healing. We’ll light candles and lean into the promise that light shines in the darkness. We’ll breathe deeply and pray for healing and wholeness. We’ll immerse ourselves in song and Scripture and proclaim that Christ is born for you.

If a quiet service of reflection beckons to you in these Advent days, please join us on Tuesday, December 7 at 7:00 pm at the Minneapolis campus or on Livestream.

Pastor Kris and Diane

November 23, 2021 – Thanksgiving

Every year at Thanksgiving, before we would eat, my Grandma would go around the table and make each person say one thing that they were grateful for this year. I was always hungry and having to wait longer to eat didn’t really engender feelings of gratitude. But every year, without fail, as I would listen to my family share with one another all the things for which they were thankful, I couldn’t help but be grateful too.

It reminds me that gratitude is both a discipline and an attitude. It’s something that we can cultivate and practice. The apostle Paul begins most of his letters expressing deep gratitude for the people he’s writing too. We know that Paul didn’t always agree with or get along with the people in the churches he worked with, just read Galatians. But he practiced gratitude and in turn started to see the fruit of God’s work in and through these people God had called him to serve.

Recently I came across a TED Talk a colleague of mine shared years ago. It felt appropriate for this week and the season we’re living through. It’s only six minutes long, so I encourage you to watch it, reflect on what you’re grateful for at this moment, this week, this year. I imagine you’ll be surprised and delighted just as I always am.

I also want to invite you to join us in Minneapolis or on the Livestream for Thanksgiving Eve Worship at 7:00 pm Wednesday evening. It’s a rich and meaningful worship experience, and I look forward to lifting our voice in thanks and praise to God. Food and monetary donations will be received for our mission partners, CES and ICA. Log into your Realm account to give online, or bring your offering to Thanksgiving worship.

Pastor Ben

November 17, 2021 – Advent Small Groups

I rarely muster the willpower for a Lenten discipline, but for some reason Advent feels doable. I often add a spiritual practice to my routine in December, something to nourish my relationships and help the familiar stories come alive again.

This year, I invite you to join me in welcoming the new church year with an Advent practice. We’ve created a four-week study guide based on the stories we’ll hear in Sunday worship services. The resource invites us into community with the characters who shape the telling of Jesus’ birth and into connection with one another. It’s designed to be used as part of a small group experience, a four-week connection between worship and study, between Sunday mornings and our relationships during the week.

If you are already part of a small group, this study guide is available in the digital library we share through Google Classroom. If you’ve been thinking about joining a small group, this four-week series is the perfect time to give it a try! Create a group with folks you already know through a committee, team, or ensemble. If you’re still finding friendships at Bethlehem, simply register and we’ll help you find a good fit for your schedule and interests.

The resource will also be available on our church website on the pages about Advent and Adult Education. Printed copies are being gifted during the drive-thru event at both campuses this Sunday, November 21 after worship. I hope you’ll use this resource to nourish your faith and spark conversations about these sacred stories. And I pray that your relationships are blessed by the season that invites us into a new beginning, a coming home to what’s still possible with God.

Pastor Meta

November 9, 2021 – Welcoming New Staff

Over the past few months we’ve had a number of changes on our staff, and as you saw last week with Maria Bucka’s retirement announcement we’re not done yet! I have seen 2021 referred to as the year of the Great Resignation, and while I don’t think that directly applies to Bethlehem, we are not immune from the zeitgeist of this moment that we are living through. Folks are being intentional and taking time to imagine new possibilities of how they want to live, work and serve in God’s world. That’s exciting, but obviously presents the church with some challenges. That said, we are close to being fully staffed once again, so I wanted to take any opportunity to introduce a few of our newest team members and highlight some of their roles.

Jill Bickler: Is working as the Minneapolis Campus Administrator. She will be the first point of contact for those who call, visit, or contact the office during the week. As a reminder the Minneapolis office is open Monday through Thursday from 9-3. Jill has already had an extraordinary impact on the office and streamlined many of our processes. If you are interested in volunteering in the office during the week, to help answer phones or work on additional projects, please contact Jill.

Kenna Chase: Is joining us as a Communications and Design Coordinator. Kenna recently graduated from Dunwoody College of Technology with a degree in Graphic Design. In addition to Kenna’s design skills, she has many years of experience in relationship management and customer service. We are excited to have her creative thinking and customer service skills on the team.

Aly Haugen

Aly Haugen: Is our new Events and Hospitality Coordinator. Aly is a member of the congregation and a recent Luther College graduate. She will be a consistent presence on Sunday mornings helping us to rebuild and further develop our welcoming culture. She brings a passion for people and helping them find places to plugin and use their gifts and abilities in service of God’s work in the world. We’re excited to have Aly on our team as we start to think about how we reactivate folks in service of the church’s mission.

We continue to work on finding a Technical Director, the position formerly held by Dan Mariska, and are hoping find a replacement very soon. In the meantime, we give thanks to Dave Michel who once again is ably and generously giving of his time to make sure we can continue to worship in rich and meaningful ways in a variety of locations.

Thanks for your ongoing support of and your prayers for our staff at this time. We are grateful to be becoming together.


November 2, 2021 – All Saints Sunday

This Sunday is All Saints Sunday. We’ll read the names of people from the congregation who died in the past year, and we’ll light candles for the newly baptized – a reminder that “saints” are not people who lead extraordinary lives, but ordinary Christians living into the promises of baptism. The communion of saints extends beyond time and space and includes both the living and the dead.

At this time last year, worship was Livestream, with no option for in-person worship. In fact, that was our reality for a whole year! That means many of our funeral gatherings since March 2020 have been scaled back, and, we haven’t always been able to share grief and support in person. All Saints, therefore, feel like a good time to look back a little further and remember loved ones who died during the pandemic and connect with their families.

On Sunday, we’ll read names and light candles in worship to honor those who have died or been baptized this past year, as usual. But this year, we’ll also gather photos. In a space not far from the Sanctuary*, we’ll set up a table with photos of people from the congregation who died during covid as a reminder that these people now rest in God. We’ll invite their families to worship with us if they’re able, and we’ll remind them that their grief is shared. We’ll also welcome photos of anyone who died in March 2020, so if you are grieving the loss of a loved one, feel free to bring a photo. There will also be an opportunity to light candles in memory of loved ones.

If you have questions, feel free to reach out: [email protected] or 612-312-3410. As always, if you’re not able to participate in person, feel free to gather photos and light candles at home during Livestreamworship. Peace to you.


*Langemo Lounge in Mpls and the Narthex in Mtka

October 26, 2021 – Affirmation of Baptism

There’s a note I keep in my bible. I’m not quite sure why I started. I suppose it was because I received the note on the day of my Confirmation and the bible I keep it in was a gift from my grandparents on that same day. Now, more than 25 years later, I still return to that note with some regularity.

It was from my Great Uncle Gene. He was my maternal grandmother’s brother, a kind and generous man who always took interest and delight in hearing what was going on in my life. He had an amazing, deep voice, and it was a beautiful thing just to hear him speak. In this note he shared with me his thoughts on what that day signified, its importance, and why he was grateful to have been there with me.

Then on the second page, he said, “all of this will become more meaningful for you as you get older…” That’s the part that I come back to time and again. Because he was right. Not that I somehow figured out exactly what I was saying yes to that day, because I haven’t.

God’s promises are still as big and overwhelming as they were on that Sunday in April of 1995. No, that day means more to me because it’s a part of a fabric of so many days, so many people who have helped to teach me the faith, sustain me in faith, and have faith when I couldn’t. That day of affirmation is just one of many days where I tried to say yes to God, but did so supported by so many others who have tried and were trying to do the same. It’s something we do each and every day. It’s the life of faith.

So I encourage you hold our 10th-graders in your prayer this Sunday as they do that. Try to say to the Jesus that first said yes to them in the waters of baptism. Have faith with them. That’s who are as the church. A patchwork of people, knit together by God to have faith together, that God is helping us to become the people we were created to be.

Pastor Ben

Pastor Ben's Letter from Uncle Gene

October 19, 2021 – Getting from Here to There

My oldest daughter released an album last week and I’ve been listening to it on repeat. In the song entitled, “Standing In the Way,” she sings: “There’s a pull on the map, when it’s laying flat seems easy to arrive…”

“Seems” is the key word in this sentiment.

I enjoy the first step of any trip: looking on a map, figuring out when, where and how you’re going to get there. Once the destination is identified then the real work begins. You do your research. You tend to details of meal-planning and accommodations. The “things to do” list before you go grows long. A meaningful and memorable trip doesn’t just happen. It’s rarely easy to arrive. Preparation is key for every successful trip. You’ll likely encounter roadblocks or detours along the way, but with careful planning before departure you are more ready to adjust as needed while keeping your focus on where you’re headed and why.

During the annual fall stewardship campaign we lift up the importance of your financial commitments to further Bethlehem’s mission — Becoming Together: Sharing in the work of God’s vision for a healed world. This is our shared destination. We can’t do the work God calls us to without pooling together our financial resources. Thank you for your continued commitment to our shared work in Jesus’ name. Our life together also relies on the generosity of your time and talent. We’re so grateful for different ways you participate in our life together.

A special shout out to Bethlehem’s Church Council who steward us in this endeavor. Please keep them in your prayers. We are grateful for their faithful and generous commitment to moving us toward God’s vision of abundant life for all people.

  • John Helberg, President
  • Lisa Hedden, Past-President
  • Lisa Johnson, Secretary
  • Joe McRae, Treasurer
  • Elizabeth Appel
  • Nan Grube
  • Chris Hughes
  • Val Johnson
  • Andy Kroll
  • Joanne Ortendahl-Lucas
  • Lamar Newburn
  • Nikki Sorum
  • Andrew Witt
  • Heather Stonacek, Recording Secretary

With deep gratitude,
Pastor Mary

October 14, 2021 – COVID Protocol Update

It’s been exciting to kick-off another programmatic year at Bethlehem. We delight in seeing many people again after far too long. We’re grateful for the presence of families engaging in worship, learning and fun. We celebrate those who continue to participate and engage virtually with the life of our congregation. With increased activity in our spaces we thought it prudent to communicate how we gather given the ongoing reality of COVID.

  • We celebrate the success of vaccinations that keep risk extremely low for hospitalization and death. Thank you for being vaccinated.
  • We will continue to mask as an act of radical hospitality — for the sake of the families wanting to be in this space but whose children can’t be vaccinated.
  • We will continue to mask to reduce the risk of disruption. If worship leaders are exposed, the required time (10 days) to quarantine will significantly impact the worship life both at MPLS and MTKA.
  • We are being cautious, not out of fear but with hope to mitigate the virus for the sake of the greater community. 

The Task Force recently reconvened and recommended we continue with our current approach to our life together.

As a reminder, please stay home if you’re not feeling well. If you test positive for the virus after having recently been in one of our facilities, please let us know as soon as possible so we can alert others. If you were not at Bethlehem Twin Cities within two days of the positive findings, there is no need to call. If you have questions about COVID and vaccines, please call Diane Waarvik or Heidi Peterson at 612-312-3400.

October 12, 2021 – A Regular Season of Surprise

I will miss summer. The warmth. The sun. The long days and the bright nights. The ability to be outside whenever. I do love that. But I also like the change of seasons. Each new season invites a different kind of focus. Maybe I’ve been conditioned to think that way, to expect certain things in certain seasons. Football and apples in fall. Sledding and snowmen in winter. But each season always manages to surprise me. I think you notice different things, or maybe more accurately you notice different aspects of familiar things.

Every fall the church talks about generosity and giving. It’s predictable. We read stories from scripture that celebrate and invite generous living and an attitude of abundance. It’s what we do. It’s what we’ve done. It happens every year like the changing of the seasons. And yet every year I’m surprised. Every year I see something new. I am moved by something different. I am confronted by the surprising grace of Jesus Christ in a new way, through you. Your love for Bethlehem and your love for God continues to astound and surprise me. So I am moving into my eleventh season of stewardship with Bethlehem confident that I will be once again greeted by the unexpected and the wonderful. I will see more of who this community truly is, as you continue to live into God’s call to become more generous together, in faith, hope and love.

Over the next few weeks we want to take an opportunity to share with you something about Bethlehem, about what you all do together that might surprise and delight you. Think of them as different and beautiful aspects of this congregation that you know well, that greet you in this new season.

Pastor Ben

October 5, 2021 – Annual Campaign Launch

Becoming Together through Faith, Hope and Love is the theme for our 2022 annual stewardship campaign. Join us this Sunday to discover how our combined financial commitments increase ministry impact for the sake of the world God loves. There’ll be a surprise that’s part of the launch during worship and giveaways during the drive-thru event at both campuses—thanks to the Bethlehem Foundation and Stewardship Team. In Minneapolis come to meet and greet neighbors during Open Streets (11:00 am–5:00 pm). At the top of the hour (12:00–3:00 pm) there will be bike blessings, book readings and a book giveaway. You can also add your unique signature to an interactive, intergenerational art project on the lawn on Lyndale Avenue.

See you Sunday!
Ben & Mary

September 28, 2021 – Global Health

From the outset, the leadership team for our current capital campaign, Building a Future with Hope, has sought to provide regular updates on how we are progressing toward our goal, sharing information about what work is being done, and how your generosity is impacting our partners in ministry. This Sunday following worship at 10:15 am in Minneapolis, there will be another opportunity to get up to date. Kim Dickey from Global Health Ministries and a long-time Bethlehem member will be sharing news about how GHM is strengthening health systems in resource-poor areas of the world.

The capital campaign is helping to fund lodging spaces for families in Madagascar. This will give them a place to stay while they help care and support for loved ones who are in need of medical assistance. We are continuing work that was begun at Ejeda Hospital through our Opening New Doors capital campaign and deepening our long-standing connection to Global Health Ministries and its life-saving work.

If you’re worshiping in person at 10:15 am in Minneapolis, you’re welcome to stick around and join us. Or if you’d rather, join us on the livestream immediately following worship.

We are so grateful for the opportunity to celebrate your generosity and share with you the impact you are having here and around the world.

Pastor Ben

September 21, 2021 – Priorities

Dear Bethlehem,

In last week’s From the Pastor letter I named one of Bethlehem’s priorities for the coming year: becoming a hybrid church. We’re committed to living into this new reality of in-person and online strategies needed for continuing the ministry of Jesus.

We’ve identified two other priorities for ministries in our congregation: re-engaging families with children and centering the voices of young adults. Our Children, Youth and Family staff continue to be in conversation with families and young adults with intention and care. We’ve been listening for how Bethlehem can support them in our current context.

We’ve learned that many of our families aren’t ready to be back inside the buildings but are longing for connection and growing in faith together. We’re grateful for the honest and heartfelt conversations and are responding by developing resources and experiences that meet them where they’re at, assuring them that they are part of this beloved community.


Communion on the Lawn

(Pictured: Pastors Ben and Heather serving Communion on the Lawn, welcoming many families on campus for the first time since March 2020.)


We’re also grateful that the young adult community at Bethlehem continues to deepen their engagement and grow in numbers. They’re bringing fresh perspectives and new insights about being church in and for the world.

Part of our calling as a congregation is to nurture people in faith, that they are empowered to bear witness to Christ in word and deed. We’ll keep tending to this, learning from what works and from what fails. We’ll remain open to the Spirit’s promptings, following Jesus into the future God imagines for the church at work in the world.

You’ll learn more about these priorities in the fall stewardship campaign, Becoming Together through Faith, Hope and Love, that will launch on Sunday, October 10. Thank you for your continued generosity which supports Bethlehem ministries and keeps us moving forward in mission.

With deep gratitude,
Pastor Mary

September 14, 2021 – Celebration Sunday Reflections

Dear Bethlehem —

My heart is full! What a blessing it was to gather for worship on Sunday. Whether you worshipped from home or in one of our sanctuaries it was good to be together to hear God’s word, sing God’s praises, celebrate the gift of this community and launch a new program year to support our becoming together.

One of my favorite stories from the day came from Holly and Jonah who participated in Communion on the Lawn*. After the meal was served and the blessing received, Holly shared with me that Jonah had taken the First Communion class last spring and celebrated communion for the first time with his mom at home as they tuned in to Bethlehem’s Livestream worship. But this had been Jonah’s First in-person Communion with his church. She was grateful for both experiences. This is who we are — a worshipping community who gather in-person and online.

Many of the ways we used to do things have had to change, creating challenges we’ve not encountered before. But with challenge comes opportunity and we’re learning new ways for staying connected, growing in faith and serving in Jesus’ name. We’re becoming a hybrid church — which isn’t just two options co-existing. Being hybrid is the result of two dissimilar things coming together to create something entirely new. Our hope for being a hybrid church is to create a holistic, seamless strategy for nurturing faith through a community of meaningful connections, whether you’re in the room or not. Becoming a hybrid church is a priority for us in the coming year.

Bethlehem has a history of keeping the main thing the main thing — Jesus’ call to love God with all our heart, mind, soul and strength and to love others as God loves them. How we do this is always evolving as we stay open to the Holy Spirit’s leading. It’s exciting and holy work and I’m grateful for your part in the adventure!

Pastor Mary

*Communion on the Lawn is available every Sunday, weather permitting, at 11:30 am at both campuses.

September 7, 2021- Let’s Celebrate!

Dear Bethlehem,

I’m so excited about all that’s planned for this coming Sunday. I hope you’ll make every effort to be part of the day that starts with worship at 8:45 & 10:15 am (MPLS) and 9:30 am (MTKA), and Livestream at 10:15 am. Go to the website for details about what’s happening in addition to worship: the El Jefe food truck, petting zoo, scavenger hunt and more (MPLS), and dedicating the courtyard, multiple llamas, cookie decorating and more (MTKA). We’ll take pictures to share with those of you who can’t be on site. Know that you’ll be missed and we’re grateful for your presence in this community, whatever that looks like for you in this moment.

Whether here or elsewhere, we gather as Bethlehem Lutheran Church Twin Cities to give God thanks and praise for the life-giving news of Jesus, for the gift of this community, and the blessing it is to be connected in faith in our becoming together. Every day is a day that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it!

Pastor Mary

August 31, 2021 – Make Music & Share Life Together

I am so grateful for the musicians that are a part of our congregation. They enliven and enrich our worship, they help us experience moments of transcendence. They awaken faith in our bodies in ways that the spoken word alone cannot. I am especially grateful for the musicians that serve on the staff here at Bethlehem. Over the last year and a half they have found ways to continue to allow music to be created in a variety of ways in the most challenging of circumstances.

After Labor Day our instrumental and vocal ensembles will begin making music together again. If you would like to be a part of that, and feel ready to be a part of this good and holy work, more information can be found on our website.

These groups play a pivotal role in the life of our congregation. Yes they enrich our worship. But they also foster connections and relationships. They are networks of prayer and support that celebrate the joys of life and walk with each other during the challenging moments. They make music together but they all share life together. They are the church. They are a huge part of how we are Becoming Together, and we’re excited to invite you into that work.

Pastor Ben

August 24, 2021 – Save the Date!

Dear Bethlehem—

Growing up in the church, the first Sunday in September following Labor Day was always called Rally Sunday. Bethlehem calls it Celebration Sunday. The purpose is the same; only the name is different. For those who don’t know, Rally Sunday is the celebration of the beginning of a new program year at church. We’re not changing the name, but I do find myself thinking about the former title.

Webster defines “rally” as: (a verb) “to draw or call together for a common purpose” and (a noun) “a renewal of energy in joint action.” Both definitions speak to an ongoing desire I have for our faith community. How about you?

In a year that has kept us mostly apart, I’m grateful for our shared purpose in loving God and loving others. In our current culture, it’s life-giving to be reminded that we’re not alone: God blesses us with God’s presence and strengthens us through this community as we seek to know and love God and act on behalf of others. I look forward to our rally on Celebration Sunday, September 12.

As we draw together for a common purpose, may the Holy Spirit renew our energy for worship, for digging into God’s Word, for connection, for serving in Jesus’ name, and for sharing in the work of God’s vision for a healed world.

See you Sunday—in person or online!
Pastor Mary

August 17, 2021 – Finding Belonging and Making Connections

Before the pandemic, we chose a particular worship service for welcoming new members. It was hard to find a date that worked for everyone and only the folks attending that particular service were able to participate in the welcome.

We’ve learned a lot since then! This Sunday we’ll celebrate new members at all of our worship services – online and in both sanctuaries. Wherever and whenever you show up, you’ll get to see their faces and share a word of welcome.

I am in awe of these newcomers. They found belonging and made connections during a very unique season of church. Some introduced themselves during parking lot drive-thru events or signed up to be an usher or reader the first weeks we opened in-person worship. Others joined small groups and made new friends through adult education on Zoom.

I wonder if we aren’t all new members these days. We’re still figuring out how to show up as one community across time and space. We’re tending to collective grief and hope, both old and new. We are exploring why the church matters and what’s next together.

Wherever you are, I hope you’ll celebrate these new members on Sunday. Introduce yourself. Be curious about each other. And remember your own welcome in the process of making space for another.

Pastor Meta

August 10, 2021 – Staff Updates

Today I wanted to take an opportunity to provide an update on some of the recent staff news, help put some role changes in context, and invite your help in finding good fits for three new roles on staff.

First, over the last few months Diane Waarvik and Pastor Kris Tostengard Michel have been working together to assess the ways in which their skills and passions can complement one another and help Bethlehem’s care ministry continue to grow in new directions.

Moving forward, Diane’s title will be Director of Health and Wellness. Diane will continue to work closely with Mental Health Connect and will be working to build out Bethlehem’s own Mental Health Ministries. Diane will support critical initiatives like the Gathering and Starfish Ministries. She will also work to further develop our educational offerings that help foster whole person wellness.

Pastor Kris will now be the Pastor of Congregational Care & Adult Ministry. Kris will focus time and energy on leading our pastoral care work, our visiting efforts like Lay Eucharistic Ministers and Parish Visitors, and supporting our grief ministry. Kris will be engaged with some of our vibrant adult ministries like SALT, Free Spirits, and our Women’s Ministries.

Diane and Kris will continue to partner in critical ways to ensure that we are able to respond as a congregation to the care needs of our members and our community.

We are looking to hire three roles that will help support the work and ministry of this congregation in critical ways: a full-time campus administrator for the Minneapolis campus, a part-time communications and design coordinator; and a part-time hospitality and events coordinator. If you’re interested or know someone we should talk with, please don’t hesitate to refer them.

Ben Nelson

We’re excited to welcome Ben Nelson to our Children, Youth and Family Ministry team. Ben is a seminarian and will be working with Pastor Heather, Ellen and Ann to develop meaningful children’s programming for the Minnetonka campus.

Bernie Harroun

We’re also excited to welcome Bernie Harroun as the custodian for the Minnetonka campus. Bernie brings years of experience to bear and has jumped in and started to get familiar with our Minnetonka facility.

Last week, hopefully you saw our email about Steph Smith’s new plans. We’re so grateful for her many years with us and all she has given to this congregation, this community and the world. Finally we’re grateful to Jennifer Harris for the work she’s done over the last two years supporting Care Ministries and Mental Health Connect and our communications team. Jennifer has a new role at a church in St. Paul and we wish her well.

In the coming weeks we will be profiling some of the different staff teams that serve this congregation so we can all have a better picture of how we’re working together to do the work God is calling us to do.

—Pastor Ben

August 3, 2021 – A Return to Masks for Now…

“Let each of you look not to your own interests but to the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:4)

Last week the CDC updated guidelines for fully vaccinated people to wear a mask indoors in public if you are in an area of substantial or high transmission, which now includes all counties in the Twin Cities metro area. Wearing a mask decreases the possibility of spreading the virus to others and maximizes protection from the Delta variant. While there is no mask mandate in place, the MDH recommends that Minnesotans follow the CDC guidelines.

Because of these recommendations, Bethlehem will require everyone over 2 years of age to wear a mask when in our facilities, regardless of vaccination status, effective immediately.

This is not what we hoped for after seeing so much progress these last few months. It’s troubling news — especially for the most vulnerable among us. But we’ve learned a lot since March of 2020. We know there are ways to mitigate the spread of the virus:

  • Get vaccinated
  • Wear a mask
  • Stay home if you’re sick

So let’s do our part! It’s one small act that can make a big difference for others who are at risk — many of whom are children that are not yet able to be vaccinated. Let’s do this for the kids.

A friend of mine used a helpful metaphor with her congregation: when we board an aircraft, we are required to wear seat belts. The pilot gives permission after takeoff to remove our belts for comfort. However, when turbulence happens, the pilot makes a verbal announcement and turns on an electronic sign to “fasten your seat belts” until further notice.

We are in a time of turbulence. There’s a lot of virus moving around. We need to be on heightened alert, putting into practice strategies that diminish transmission. We don’t know who is vaccinated and who is not. We do know masking increases protection for you and the vulnerable around you. We’re confident that the turbulence will pass as we work together for the health and welfare of all.

We’re grateful for continuing conversation with Bethlehem’s COVID task force as we discern best practices for the congregation in these uncertain times. We’re grateful that we’ll continue to gather every Sunday for worship and fellowship in person and online. We’re grateful for you, dear church, who give faithful witness to God’s love revealed in Jesus as you continue to serve God and neighbor.

In the strong name of Jesus,
Pastor Mary

July 27, 2021 – From the Belly of the Whale

Read the chapter of Jonah and share your observations and what you’re curious about with Pastor Ben.

July 20, 2021 – Consistency In Worship

Pastor Mary shares a plan for consistency in worship as a faith community rooted in word and sacrament.

July 13, 2021 – The Possibility of Home

Join us in New Hope for Habitat of Humanity builds the weeks of July 19–23 & August 9–13.


July 6, 2021 – More Than a Moment

A couple weeks ago, Dave and I did something we hadn’t done in a long time: we got dressed up and went out to dinner! (Noteworthy after 15 months of social distancing.) The event was a banquet in honor of Dr. James Meredith, a civil rights activist who integrated the University of Mississippi in 1962. The keynote speaker was Dr. Terence Roberts, one of the “Little Rock Nine” who desegregated Central High School in Little Rock, Arkansas in 1957. The evening was the culmination of several roundtable discussions (including one at Bethlehem) between civil rights icons and members of the Twin Cities community.

It was a remarkable evening. Some 200 students and educators, business and nonprofit leaders, government officials, and faith community leaders dined together and listened to first-hand stories of civil rights leaders, now in their 80s, and to music of Billie Holiday performed by Thomasina Petrus and the Trio, including “Strange Fruit,” the haunting protest anthem about lynching. Meredith, Roberts and Holiday each risked their lives as young people for the sake of racial justice and, in the prophetic tradition, to articulate truth that was difficult to hear.

The audience that night ranged from contemporaries of the speakers to current high school students — evidence that time marches on. With it comes some perspective. Are we wiser now? Have things changed really? (James Meredith reminded us that Minnesota ranks 50th in the nation for graduation rates of students of color… and then he returned to his seat next to the governor.) I wonder how the long view of history will regard our current engagement in the struggle. How will this moment be part of a larger narrative?

In a few days, some of our high school students will participate in an immersive learning experience designed to help them understand themselves as racial beings and to consider tangible next steps to confront racism. Let’s keep them in our prayers. The Spirit has been known to stir in the hearts of young people, after all! Let’s pray that the Spirit of the Lord who anointed Jesus to bring good news to the oppressed will draw us in to the pursuit of justice.

Pastor Kris

June 29, 2021 – What’s Freedom?

When I was in seminary I thought that much of my time as a pastor would be spent having deep theological conversations with people who had big questions about God. I thought people would call me up and say, let’s have a beer because I have some things I want to ask you. And while it does happen, it’s maybe more like a couple times a year than a couple times a week.

Over two years ago, I thought it would be fun to put together a series of videos that teed up some of the kinds of conversations I thought I would be having much more. I thought these videos could hit on common questions people have or “cool” pieces of theology that we never find time to unpack on Sunday morning or confusing parts of scripture that make you scratch your head.

In my head I thought we’d call the series, “Beer with a Pastor.” Because Meta is game for any kind of adventure, and we used to have these kinds of conversations over beer while in seminary, I convinced her to shoot a few pilot episodes. They never saw the light of day. Turns out watching your pastors drink beer and talk shop isn’t really a spectator sport. Also it’s hard to keep the camera in focus when you’re on the other side of it.

But today I’m going to share one of them.

Because every year around the Fourth of July there is all kinds of talk and celebration of our freedom, I try to remind myself that the freedom we have as Christians is different. It’s not an absolute freedom, it’s not a freedom without purpose. Sometimes folks in the church will say that we’ve been freed from something (sin, death, despair, isolation) so that we can be free for something (life, love and your neighbor).

If you’re interested in reading the whole treatise that I reference in the video, that can be found here. However, the two themes that Martin Luther develops are these:

  • The Christian individual is a completely free lord of all, subject to none.
  • The Christian individual is a completely dutiful servant of all, subject to all.

So as you celebrate the gift of freedom that is yours in Christ, always remember it comes with an amazing opportunity to use it for the well-being of others and the healing of this world.

Pastor Ben

June 22, 2021 – People to Place

A few years ago I had the good fortune to eat lunch across the table from Chris Coleman at the Habitat for Humanity senior pastor build. Chris had just recently been named the new CEO for Twin Cities Habitat for Humanity and I was excited to talk with him. I told him that as a pastor I struggle with responding to all of the invitations to partner with organizations that are doing good work and making a difference in communities locally and globally. I asked, why does Habitat for Humanity stand out? He first acknowledged his own bias and love for the organization he was called to lead, but then said something that’s stuck with me.

If you solve for housing, all of the other challenges — unemployment, substance abuse, mental health, food insecurity, education, and list goes on — become just a little bit easier.

If we’ve learned anything over the past year and a half it’s how critical safe and stable housing is. When the world is upside down, when things change on a day-to-day basis, having a place for you and your family to be able to rest and reset is critical.

This is why we’ve articulated People to Place as one of our areas of focus in our vision statement Becoming Together. It’s why we partner with organizations like Habitat for Humanity and Beacon Interfaith Housing Collaborative to help ensure that people can have a home. It’s why we work with ZOOM House and Our Savior’s Community Services to help begin that transition for folks who are experiencing homelessness to long-term solutions.

Next month there will be a number of opportunities for you to partner with Habitat and Beacon to make a difference in someone’s life. Whether it’s through one of our two Habitat build weeks or helping to provide meals for Families Moving Forward, a little bit of your time or energy or resources can go a long way. You can learn more about our Habitat build in New Hope or the needs for our Families Moving Forward hosting efforts on our website.

Thank you, and more importantly, thank God for you.
Pastor Ben

Enjoy a tour of Bethlehem’s Stained Glass Windows

Learn about windows both at the Minneapolis and Minnetonka Campuses — the art, their history, their story. This presentation was put together by Dan Mariska and Bethlehem’s very own SALT group. Enjoy!

June 15, 2021 – Lake Harriet Bandshell Worship

Bethlehem and Spirit Garage worship will be at the Lake Harriet Bandshell this coming Sunday, June 20, 10:00 AM with Monroe Crossing leading music.

Please note the time change. It’s a wonderful opportunity for our campuses to worship together along with the greater community. Invite friends and neighbors. Stay for a brief concert by Monroe Crossing immediately following worship. We will livestream from the Bandshell, so if you can’t make it in person, be sure to tune in from wherever you are. Services will not be held in either sanctuary or at Squirrel Haus Arts that day. In case of inclement weather, check Facebook and the webpage for updates. See you Sunday!

June 9, 2021 – Care of Creation Immersion

Dear Bethlehem,

A few years ago a group of young adults, funded in part by the Bethlehem Foundation, traveled with Lutheran Partners in Global Ministry (LPGM) to Guatemala to learn from a local organization having an impact in the region. The focus of their work is to provide education for women and to implement sustainable agricultural practices. Ellen Weber, Bethlehem’s Director of Youth and Young Adult Ministry, notes that a new curiosity emerged from the experience leading to questions about our local community: “What stories are we missing? What stories may be untrue? What does it look like to listen and learn here?”

What better time to take a deep dive into these questions than right now? This year there’s an exciting opportunity to do just that through a local immersion experience called Caring for Community Immersion. Please watch the short video attached and hear from people in the Bethlehem community who are excited to participate in this opportunity for deep learning and impact for change. Watch, listen and you may be moved to participate too. Go to the website to learn more.

Summer in Minnesota is traditionally a time to mix things up a bit. Routines and regiments often relax. Many of us spend as much time as possible outside — immersing ourselves in the beauty of creation. Consider what change might happen when we immerse ourselves in the stories of the community in which we live. As we listen and learn from others may we discover a way forward together that brings healing change into the world.

Pastor Mary

June 3, 2021- Masks and Moving Forward

Dear Bethlehem,

This week we take another important step toward post-pandemic life as a church. Effective this Sunday, masks will no longer be required for those who are fully vaccinated. We are still going to follow the recommendations of public health experts and expect that those who are unvaccinated or partially vaccinated will continue to wear masks.

This is a big shift and will bring with it a whole host of feelings for many, specifically those of you who are choosing to join us for in person worship. While this might feel like a “return to normal” in many ways it’s more than that. We are constructing a new way of showing up in space together. Everyone will do that at a different speed and with different expectations. We need to continue to create space for people to show up and be treated the way they want to be treated, not the way we expect they should. So we ask that you leave room for celebration and trepidation and everything in between. If you’ve been waiting for this moment since the second week after your second dose, come on in. If you’re thinking that online worship is still the route for you, or you and your family we see you too.

Each step forward brings a new set of challenges and opportunities that we will navigate together. Know that we’re grateful for you, your love for Bethlehem and one another, and your patience as we move forward in faith together.

A reminder of what you can expect.

  • Pre-registration is no longer required.
  • Spaces are marked in the pews to allow for some space between groups of worshippers.
  • Congregational singing is welcomed.
  • Communion is served with individual wafers and cups of wine and grape juice.

Grace and peace,
Mary and Ben

June 1, 2021- Creative Connections

Have you been noticing some of the ways the world seems both smaller and bigger these days? We spent so much of the last year locally, alone, or in smaller and more familiar groups. At the same time, we adapted our behavior to protect neighbors and strangers. We used technology to nourish relationships near and far.

Those connections will continue transforming the Bethlehem community. People tune in for worship from all over the country and abroad. Small groups are meeting online, grateful for the flexibility to be together after kids are in bed. And some who found Bethlehem during the pandemic are showing up for worship in person. I recognize them from Zoom or a phone call and realize we’re not meeting for the first time on a Sunday morning — we’re already connected.

Tom and Peg Houle started worshipping with us while living in New Jersey. They were discerning a move to the Twin Cities, a homecoming from Peg who had long hoped for a return to the Midwest. When Tom asked their beloved pastor in New Jersey about congregations in the Minnetonka area, she grinned. Pastor Christa and I became friends a few years ago, thanks to Pastor Holly at Spirit Garage. Christa pointed the Houle’s toward Bethlehem and that’s when Peg grinned. She had attended Bethlehem in Minneapolis in the 1980s and thought a campus in Minnetonka was too good to be true!

Moving can be stressful in the best of times, but it was particularly challenging while COVID numbers spiked at different times in each region. Bethlehem offered rituals, hope, connection, and a new beginning in the midst of so much change. By the time we met in person, Tom and Peg had been actively involved online for several months. Their first visit to the Minnetonka campus meant recognizing several familiar (masked) faces from a Bible study and forums.

Today I give thanks to God for all of the creative connections and the new movement being stirred up in this congregation. We are together, even when we are apart. We are becoming the church in a world that is both smaller and so much bigger.

Pastor Meta

May 26, 2021 – Plans For Reopening

Dear Bethlehem,

Plans for reopening are changing quickly. We encourage you to check the website regularly for updated information. For over a year we’ve navigated the unsettling pattern of making plans, scrapping them, replanning, adjusting, repeat. But increased vaccination rates and decreased infection spread give us confidence to plan further ahead. We are excited about plans for the summer.

Beginning June 6 worship will:

  • Continue with one service at each campus and livestream at 10:15 am
  • Continue with worship registration
  • Increase capacity at both campuses to 250
  • Require masking (will align with City of Minneapolis orders at both campuses)

Beginning July 11 worship will: 

  • Increase to two services at MPLS (8:45 am and 10:15 am) and move MTKA service to 9:30 am
  • Continue with livestream at 10:15 am
  • Stop worship registrations
  • Align with City of Minneapolis masking mandate
  • No capacity limits 
  • Set-up commons in MPLS for overflow seating

Beginning June 7 the buildings will be open with limited staffing: 

  • MPLS campus:  Monday–Thursday, 9:00 am–1:00 pm
  • MTKA campus: Thursdays, 9:00 am–3:00 pm
  • Staff will continue to be available outside of these building hours via email/phone
  • Building/office hours will be adjusted as the summer progresses. Please be sure to check the website for updated information.

We are excited to be able to make these changes to open up and be in each other’s presence again! It’s been a long wait. If you’re feeling healthy we hope to see you soon. When it comes to a worship schedule, it’s hard to anticipate what the demand will be. We know worshipping in-person patterns have changed. And so we anticipate we will continually be refining the plan. We’ve been blessed to discover in new ways the power of the Holy Spirit who unites us in Word and sacrament across multiple locations. We will communicate changes effective for August and fall in mid-July.

God’s grace and peace—
Mary & Ben

May 25, 2021 – One Year Later…

One year ago our city, and country and the world was profoundly impacted by the murder of George Floyd. We are still experiencing the after effects of those nine minutes of inhumanity. But in the wake of that awful event and the challenging days that followed, many have committed themselves to working for something different. I want to share with you a video that Holy Trinity Lutheran Church created to make sense of how their story is woven into the story of their neighborhood, and the city, and all of God’s people in this moment. It’s a long video, it’s a hard video, but it’s important because it reminds us that our work of becoming something new is ongoing and it happens together. We are a storied people. It’s how we make sense of who we are and whose we are. I remain forever grateful for the ways in which Bethlehem continues to show up to love and care for our neighbors, this city and the world God loves.

Pastor Ben

May 18, 2021 – The Hybrid Church

Dear Bethlehem —

I’ve been reading a lot about the hybrid church. I referenced one article in the sermon on Sunday which claimed that congregations who don’t embrace this model will not exist in the near future. You can read the article here. You will be hearing this term more in the coming weeks and months as Bethlehem answers the question should ministry be digital or physical with a resounding “yes”!

The hybrid church model is simply a model in which a church structures ministries around both online presence and in-person gatherings. It doesn’t prioritize one over another. “The model marries together the innovative, far-reaching, multi-faceted digital experience with the personal, relational, vital physical experience.” (Quoted from this short article, another good read.). This model is a “both/and” way of doing ministry instead of an “either/or.”

This is a new model for Bethlehem and we’re committed to figuring it out. It’s exciting work! We’ll need to do some things differently — letting go of what was in order to be open to what’s next. But I am confident with the Spirit’s leading, we are up to the challenge. Bethlehem has a long history of embracing change and engaging in innovative ways of being church. We are a community empowered to reach people with the good news of Jesus so all would experience the joy of love and belonging. This hasn’t changed.

As we move forward into the future together let us give thanks for the gift of the Holy Spirit who leads us. And may each of us remain fervent in prayer that God be at work in and through us as we discover together new ways of being God’s church.

I invite you to take a small step in the work of being the hybrid church right now. Sign-up (MPLS / MTKA) to show up and help welcome people into our spaces on Sunday mornings — whether in our sanctuaries or online. Your participation makes a difference!

Thank you!
Pastor Mary

May 11, 2021 – In-Person Worship Updates

It has been a gift and a joy to see many of you looking back at me as we’ve been worshipping together these past few weeks. We had the opportunity to hear children making noise in the pews again, it’s a gorgeous sound. This past week we had the opportunity to begin to make music together again as the gathered assembly began to sing with one another, it was also beautiful.

At the end of last week Governor Walz announced another easing of restrictions, which afford us the ability to continue to explore new ways to be together again. The incremental climb of vaccinations rates and the decline of cases mean that in the coming weeks welcoming more people into the space is on the near horizon.

For the immediate near term here are a few updates:

  • Registration is still required to ensure we have enough space for everyone. Social distancing requirements limit our capacity at 100.
  • Singing behind masks is welcomed.
  • Please familiarize yourself with the safety protocols on the website, but health screening and seat assignments are no longer a part of the process.
  • We will serve communion as a part of worship but folks will be able to pick up individually wrapped communion elements to use as a part of communion as they wish.

We remain committed to offering a meaningful worship experience however you choose to gather with us, whether that is in person or online. It is delightful to see the connections this congregation continues to make with one another, both in person and digitally. You are being the church in powerful ways and we’re grateful for that.

The end of the month will usher in new adaptations and we will communicate those with you as soon as we have them. As always up to date information can be found on our website.

Thank you for your patience as we move forward together.

Pastor Ben

May 4, 2021 – The heavens are telling the glory of God!

We welcome warm temperatures, the sounds of birds, the beauty of budding flowers, and opportunities to gather safely for fun in the sun and making meaningful connections. Check out the summer fun page to learn more about Bethlehem’s summer plans for all ages. Invite friends, neighbors and extended family to join you!

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April 27, 2021 – Capital Campaign Update with LPGM

Join us after Sunday worship on the livestream for an update from the Capital Campaign Team and our partner, Lutheran Partners in Global Ministry. This will be a great opportunity to hear how we’re progressing toward our $2M goal, hear from LPGM about how Bethlehem’s generosity has had an impact in their work over the years, and learn more about what’s on the horizon for LPGM, particularly with Park Town School which has a long storied connection with Bethlehem. Please share any questions you might have in the livestream chat section on Sunday. We look forward to sharing how we’re Building a Future With Hope, together.

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April 20, 2021 – Patience, waiting and hope

We know that the whole creation has been groaning in labour pains until now; and not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly while we wait for adoption, the redemption of our bodies. —Romans 8:22-23

I love the eighth chapter of Paul’s letter to church in Rome. I don’t really understand it, but I still love it. It feels like such a struggle, filled with pathos, you can feel Paul trying to make sense of the world around him and the pieces aren’t coming together. But still he has hope, hope that somehow, someday things will be different.

That’s where I find myself today. As I hold my breath with the rest of our community, and the nation, as the jury deliberates. As I look around and see the anguish and anxiety that too many people are feeling, the pain with which too many are walking around each and every day, I’m trying to see a way forward. But the pieces aren’t coming together.

So we wait. We labor. We groan. For the redemption of our bodies, for the redemption of this world.

The outcome of this trial is infinitely important, to our city and our nation. But it won’t be the end. Whatever the outcome, we will need to continue the work of repentance. We will need to continue the work of renewal. We will need to continue to lean hard on the first fruits of the Spirit, so that we work toward a future that we can’t yet see. But in the meantime we keep hoping.

For in hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what is seen? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. —Romans 8:24-25

Pastor Traci Blackmon is the Associate General Minister of Justice & Local Church Ministries in the United Church of Christ. Earlier today she posted this.

“I expect Derek Chauvin to be found guilty. I expect him to be held accountable for his wrongs. I will never stop expecting justice. I would rather live with frequent disappointment than languish in despair. I will always expect people to rise to a higher level of humanity…even if that means I’m often wrong.”

Regardless of how you are making sense of the trial, I invite you to consider those last three lines. Because I think that’s what patient holy hope looks like. It’s how we struggle and hope when the pieces don’t fit together.

Know that you all are in my prayers and I trust that you are holding this time in your prayers as well.

God be close,

April 13, 2021 – What Can We Do?


“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.”
—Hebrews 10:23

There’s nothing we can say to ease the shock and grief from Sunday’s news of another Black man killed by a police officer. Heartbreak. Rage. Worry. Grief. Again. Duante Wright should be alive. This pattern of violence persists. With the trial of Derek Chauvin underway our collective level of anxiety is already high, and now the community is swept up in the terror of more trauma. While we can’t know the wounds of others, we are part of a shared humanity and so together we grieve, together we weep, together we ask: what can we do? What will we do?

People of faith, we return to God. We hold space for lament. We give voice to the depth of sorrow and pain. With humility, we come before God just as we are with whatever we’ve got. We name the hard truths of how far we are from the life God intends. We seek God’s presence as we process what’s on our hearts and minds.

The sanctuaries at both campuses will be open for this Thursday, April 15 from 10:00 am–6:00 pm (Prayer In the Sanctuary) for those of you who’d like to use the space for this purpose. There is no sign-up. We ask that you stay home if you’re sick, sign in when you arrive, stay masked, and maintain social distancing.

People of faith, we call to mind the belovedness of the other. Beloved is at the core of our identity. It’s not based on our accomplishments, what people think about us, or what we think of ourselves. Our identity is that we are the beloved children of God who relentlessly pursues us and loves us unconditionally. God’s love extends to all people. We love because God first loved us. In faith, we learn to see the world, each other, and ourselves as God sees us.

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People of God, in faith we live as if God’s reality is the only one that matters and so we act. We practice compassion and work for justice. We use the agency we have for breaking down the systems and cycles that perpetuate violence and injustice. The problems we face are complex. As a congregation, we will continue to do the internal work necessary to move toward justice for all. We will partner with other congregations answering God’s call to help our neighbor in need. We will advocate for equity that all might know God’s peace. God’s call to action is both corporate and individual. We won’t presume to tell you what is yours to do but know you are part of God’s plan. Now is the time for action. Open your heart to the Holy Spirit who will lead you, for God’s kingdom comes on earth as in heaven.

Less than two weeks ago our faith community gathered to retell the story of Christ crucified. At the foot of the cross, we hear Jesus cry out. He breathes his last and dies. But Easter will come. God raised Jesus to new life. The resurrection of Jesus Christ changes the trajectory of our world and our lives. Now there is hope. This is what we profess.

May the good news of Jesus strengthen you in faith and embolden you to act as we share in the work of God’s vision for a healed world.

—Pastors Mary and Ben

April 6, 2021 – In-person Worship

We are ready and excited to welcome people back into our sanctuaries in meaningful numbers on Sundays at 10:15 am. Register on our website and familiarize yourself with protocols to keep each other safe. It will be good to be back together, but let us never forget that we were never apart.

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March 30, 2021 – Join Us this Holy Week

The stories of this week may be familiar, but that doesn’t mean that the holy and the transcendent can’t surprise us. We want to encourage you to join us for these holy three days. Immerse yourself in this story, surround yourself with rich music, and taste and see the goodness of God who gives God’s own life for you. Maundy Thursday at 7:00 pm, Good Friday at 7:00 pm, and Easter Sunday at 6:00 and 10:15 am (two different services, both livestream).

Bless each other with your presence in worship these coming days, so that God may bless you, and open you up to be a gift for others.

—Pastors Ben and Mary

March 26, 2021 – In-person Worship Details

Dear Beloved of God —

Over the past few weeks Bethlehem’s staff and congregational leadership has been working hard to develop a plan for a return to in-person worship. Last Sunday we invited a few leaders to be a part of a test run to ensure that we had adequate plans in place to begin welcoming people back into the sanctuary in meaningful numbers on Sunday morning.

We are ready. We are excited. We will continue to learn along the way and are grateful for patience and grace.

Following Easter you can expect some changes to Bethlehem’s worship schedule. In-person worship limited to 75 will occur at each campus for 10:15 only. We’ll start with one service and adjust the schedule if needed. Wednesday evening worship will be suspended as we dedicate resources to Sunday livestream and in-person worship.

Registrations will be available on the website and we will ask those of you choosing to join us to familiarize yourself with protocols to keep each other safe. Some things will feel different, but we feel these are important steps to set us up for ongoing success and safety.

A subgroup of the congregational council has met to review our plans and support how we are moving into this new phase. Below you will find the committee’s update in full.

We are committed to being a hybrid church. We know that being able to worship at home or at the cabin or on the road has been a huge gift to many of you this past year. We also know that many long to be back in our buildings. We believe that we can do both of these things well. Furthermore, we believe that this is the church God is calling us to become, together. Physical location isn’t a limiting factor to our work as the body of Christ, indeed it never was, but we’ve seen more clearly in this last year just how wide our reach can be. We can be the church across time and space and that’s exciting and holy work. It will be good to be back together, but let us never forget that we were never apart.

In Christ,
Mary and Ben

“For you are called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for self-indulgence, but through love become slaves to one another. For the whole law is summed up in a single commandment, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ …the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against such things. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with it’s passions and desires.”
— Galatians 5:13-14, 22-24 NRSV

Ben and Mary,

Thank you for your love of our community and the ways you have reflected that in thoughtful decision-making while navigating the complicated decisions and logistics of closing our facilities and plans for potential reopening. When the COVID Taskforce last met, we suggested several guiding principles for consideration in closing our buildings for public use and for consideration when reopening. In summary, they were:

  • We won’t be more aggressive than MDH and CDC guidelines for meeting,
  • As a faith community, we will defer to the experts on matters of public health where appropriate,
  • As a faith community with an obligation to the most vulnerable, we will not begin reopening for only subsets of our community, but rather to begin reopening when it is safe for all,
  • and, we encourage the leadership of Bethlehem to look for, and make appropriate decisions around, meeting specific physical and in-person needs of our community (smaller groups, funerals, etc.) 

We appreciate the deliberateness, commitment, and focus Bethlehem’s staff have demonstrated over this last year in support of being God’s Church in this time and this place. You’ve made difficult decisions and done so with an eye to meeting a wide variety of needs from the congregation.  

As infection, hospitalization and death rates have fallen; and vaccination rates and access continue to accelerate, you’ve expressed interest in reopening and have shared a roadmap with the Taskforce in response.  We are supportive of your plans and of the care and focus on our most vulnerable that is captured in them. We also believe them to be in line with the guiding principles communicated to you by this Taskforce in 2020.  

As you experiment, adapt and respond through this process, we are grateful for your focus on what our church needs to be in the coming months and years. We appreciate your communicated desire to:

  • Respond with consideration for the safety needs of our most vulnerable, including our staff,
  • Continue to adapt with a worship experience that meets the needs of both in-person and online audiences and staff,
  • And, take data-driven and appropriate levels of risk in responding to the changing risk environment.

We support your desire for a thoughtful and deliberate opening that allows for appropriate consistency of experience, in an effort to minimize the risk of going too far, too fast and needing to dramatically pull back/close down. Your preliminary requirements for reopening appear to be well in line with current public health recommendations from both the CDC and MDH. Given the initial plan’s more conservative approach than is “allowed” by MDH, we encourage the staff to consider opportunities to experiment with humming along with hymns and to monitor our experience with attendance, risk-demographics of in-person worshippers, infection and vaccination rates, etc. to determine when further loosening might be appropriate. We encourage the staff to consider reopening for programming beyond worship services on a case-by-case basis based on similar guiding principles and to ensure participants are communicated with clearly.

While various available infection reporting can be hard to weigh and prioritize, this Taskforce supports your desire to be fluid in Bethlehem’s reopening with flexibility to accelerate or pull back on reopening efforts. We would suggest focusing those decisions on data that:

  • Speaks to the prevalence of concerning COVID variants, 
  • Virus reproduction (R0) rates, 
  • The experiences of similar local congregations, 
  • Local hospitalization and death rates, 
  • and, local vaccination rates and availability – particularly for high-risk groups of individuals. 

We are excited by Bethlehem’s continued effort to respond to our need to be in community, as servants of each other, and we remain available to you as resources in navigating these next steps. 

In Christ,
Caroline Cochran
Joan Flaaten
John Helberg
Andy Kroll

March 23, 2021 – Why the March Minnesota FoodShare Campaign Matters

At a recent Stewardship team meeting, Kathy reflected on how she and a dear friend came to know one another. Kathy and her husband had hosted a dinner in their home years ago. They didn’t know their guests ahead of time. It was an experience organized by Bethlehem to help congregation members make new connections. It was a heartwarming story and a story of generosity too: Kathy and her husband graciously offered their home to host; people willingly gave up their time to connect with strangers; gathered around food they shared life stories and discovered again the gift of community.

Generosity is a hallmark of our faith. Generosity is a response to God’s generous love and mercy. This Sunday is an opportunity for Bethlehem to practice generosity in a very particular way.

Please make every effort to participate in the Minnesota FoodShare March Campaign by bringing food donations to either campus on Sunday, March 28 following worship from 11:30 am–1:00 pm. For an even greater impact, you can make a financial contribution online or drop off a check noting that it is either for CES or ICA Food Shelf. Please go to Bethlehem’s website HERE to learn about specific needs for the collection.

Minnesota FoodShare envisions a future where all Minnesotans have access to healthy food and no one struggles with food insecurity. That reality would be a glimpse of heaven on earth made possible by God’s grace and the generosity of people like you. Let’s work together to make it so.

Thanks for your partnership—
Pastor Mary

March 16, 2021 – Capital Campaign Update

Stick around after the livestream worship this Sunday, March 21 for an update from Capital Campaign Team. You will hear some exciting updates from Beacon Interfaith Housing Collaborative about their work and how Bethlehem is helping to make home a reality for some of our neighbors in the Twin Cities.

March 9, 2021 – Prioritize Grace

Dear Bethlehem —

It’s been one year since we worshipped together in-person. Our world has suffered immeasurable loss. The individual and corporate grief is multi-layered and weighs heavy. Yesterday, I delivered a care package to a friend who lives an hour away. It was the second year anniversary of her son’s death. As I drove I listened to a radio show that lifted up stories of people directly impacted by the virus. These stories were interrupted by a news “break” updating me on the Chauvin trial. The reporter interviewed people for whom this moment brings both old and new trauma to the surface. At our most recent drive-thru event, one of you commented to me: “We have been through so much together and we can’t forget that each person’s story is unique.”

This is a season to prioritize grace — toward ourselves, toward one another and toward the world.

I give God thanks to be part of this community of faith bearing witness to God’s goodness and grace. I give God thanks for you and for the work we do together in Jesus’ name for the sake of the world God loves. And I give thanks and praise to God who is gracious and merciful, who is the source of all hope for healing and peace.

“May comfort come to enfold you, not to take away all sorrow but to infuse it with tenderness, with rest, with every grace it has.”
—Jan Richardson, “Blessing in the Turning”

— Pastor Mary

March 2, 2021 – Annual Meeting Videos

A big thank you to all those of you who participated in this past Sunday’s annual meeting.

It was a big experiment and a wonderful celebration of the ways Bethlehem has continued to embody the work of the church even in this challenging time. During the meeting we shared a video produced by Dan Mariska, from the Bethlehem staff. It’s a beautiful witness, be sure to watch that. Also, if you’d like to learn more, you can watch the entire annual meeting here.

March 1, 2021 – Initial Reopening Plans

Dear Bethlehem,

It was Thursday, March 12, 2020. The coronavirus numbers were climbing. There were rumors that the Governor would be issuing stay-at-home orders soon. We reached out to Bethlehem’s council leadership to discuss a plan. We invited other senior pastors to a zoom meeting to discern our next step as leaders in the church. It was a watershed moment. By the end of the day, we made the decision to immediately suspend in-person worship. We remain convinced it was a faithful response.

We’re incredibly grateful for your support of that decision and for all the ways you continued to be God’s church this past year. You remained steadfast in your generosity to support Bethlehem ministries; you responded to the needs of our neighbors impacted by increased economic hardship and civil unrest; you faithfully gathered for livestream worship on Sundays and Wednesdays, giving thanks to God, lifting prayers, singing praises, sharing in the meal, welcoming newly baptized and greeting each other in the chat. Thank you. We thank God for you.

This past winter became increasingly difficult. The grief from missing familiar holiday gatherings and the loss of loved ones added weight to our isolation and uncertainty. With the psalmist, we cry, “How long O Lord, How long?” But there are hopeful signs. The number of infections, hospitalizations and deaths are in decline and the distribution of vaccines continues to expand. We’ve learned that there are actions we can take to slow the spread of the virus. Masking and social distancing make a difference.

We are cautiously optimistic that even though the pandemic continues, there are ways to gather safely. Bethlehem leadership and staff have already started to prepare our buildings as we plan for limited in-person worship beginning Sunday, April 11.

Currently we plan to offer:

  • Continued livestream worship on Sundays at 10:15 am and Wednesdays at 6:30 pm.
  • Limited in-person worship with reservations on Sundays at 8:30 am and 10:15 am at both campuses. Masking and social distancing will be required and there will not be congregational singing.
  • Sunday school will continue with Zoom gathering at 9:30 am. There will also be outdoor Sidewalk Sunday School for families at both campuses from 11:30 am–12:15 pm.

In mid-March, we will communicate details about numbers and the registration process. Updates will be posted regularly on our website. We will work closely with Bethlehem’s COVID task force paying attention to the rate of infection spread and other pertinent medical information to determine if adjustments for gathering need to be made.

We are excited to safely gather together soon and appreciate your patience and trust as we work our way through this next phase. We will get through this together. We give thanks for God’s steadfast love that strengthens us in faith. And we give thanks that by God’s grace we’re empowered to be God’s church, giving witness to God’s love revealed in the good news of Jesus.

Grace and peace,
Mary & Ben

February 23, 2021 – Annual Meeting

Join us this Sunday for the Annual Meeting.

Please be sure to register so that you can receive the financial packet as well as the Zoom link to join the meeting. In a year when everything seemed different, Bethlehem continued to show up in bold and wonderful ways for each other and for the world. We’re excited to share those stories with you as we gather on Sunday.

February 16, 2021 – Connections Make All the Difference

Dear Bethlehem,
Many of you are aware that my youngest son lives in Madrid, Spain. It’s been over a year since I’ve seen him in person. That wasn’t the plan when he moved there. He had planned to come home last summer. Then we hoped he’d be home at Christmas. Now we hope for this summer. Thank goodness for technology that keeps us connected. It’s not the same as being together, but it does help ease my pain of being so far from him for so long. Texts, emails and Zoom assure me he’s okay. Hearing his voice and seeing his face keep me focused on the positive nurturing gratitude in my heart. These connections make all the difference.

We’re coming up on one year of staying a part as a congregation. I’m hopeful that vaccine distribution and our continued vigilance around masking, social distancing and hand-washing will afford us ways to gather in the near future. It won’t be the same as pre-COVID but be assured, the day is coming when we will be together again and it’ll do our hearts good. In the meantime, there are opportunities for us to nurture connections as a community of faith. It’s not the same as being in each other’s presence but it helps.

This Wednesday there’ll be another drive-thru event. Please come to the parking lot at either campus between 12:00–1:00 pm or 4:00–6:00 pm. From your car we’ll get to see each other! You’ll receive a bag that includes ashes to participate in the 6:30 pm service, a bible reading plan for the season and a variety of Lent related games and activities to nurture faith, regardless of age. Continue to tune in for worship every Sunday and Wednesday and keep sharing our YouTube link with family and friends. We’ve reached over a 1,000 likes on our YouTube channel — so thanks for the invitations you’ve already extended.

We may not be gathering yet but connecting in these ways keeps our focus on our shared identity as the Body of Christ. This keeps our spirits filled with hope and nurtures our hearts with gratitude. There’s no need to go through this season alone; God blesses us with the gift of community and the presence of Christ. This makes all the difference.

Pastor Mary

February 9, 2021 – Welcome Ryan!

Mary and I are thrilled to announce that we’ve hired Ryan Currens (pictured below) as our next Director of Business Administration. While there is only one Steve Tjeltveit and we remain eternally grateful for all he’s given to this congregation over the last two plus years, we are confident that Ryan will help us to continue to move forward in significant ways. Ryan will officially be starting on March 8, but will be working on some transition items with Steve during the month of February.

I want to extend my thanks to Steve, Angie Philips from our staff, as well as Lisa Johnson and Paul Steen for their assistance during the search and interview process.

Below you will find a brief bio from Ryan. One of the hallmarks of the Bethlehem staff for many years has been the skill and commitment they bring to the work God is calling us to be about at this time and place. Ryan brings a rich set of skills and experiences along with a big heart for the church. We are excited to have him join our team.

Pastor Ben

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Ryan comes to us with prior parish administration experience at Assumption Catholic Church in Richfield and Risen Savior Catholic Church in Burnsville. He has a M.A. in Policy and Leadership and Mini-Master in Volunteer Management from the University of St. Thomas along with a certificate in Human resources from BYU.

Prior to parish administration worked in the field of industrial safety with DuPont and as a firefighter and emergency manager for the Tama County government in Iowa. Ryan is an Army veteran and Eagle Scout as well.

February 2, 2021 – Our Shared Longings

Last Sunday some of us gathered on Zoom after worship to meet and greet Pastor Heather Roth Johnson. When Pastor Heather asked to hear about hopes and dreams people had for their children as part of this community of faith, Inga (age 7) enthusiastically raised and waved her hand.

She made her wishes known: “I want there to be more events like Women’s Day of Service — where we all get to be together and do things for others.” Inga’s comment speaks to a shared longing for community and purpose.

I’d like to lift up two opportunities that check both of those boxes:

This Saturday, February 6, you are invited to be part of what Inga gets excited about. The yearly event started as a ministry opportunity for women to gather and create newborn kits for women in Madagascar. It has evolved to include multiple generations making these kits, learning together and lunch! This year the invitation expands to include the entire congregation and shifts to a virtual experience.

Tune in to Bethlehem’s YouTube channel from the comfort of your own home at 10:00 am and hear the compelling stories of Pastor Ingrid Rasmussen (pictured) as she reflects on the experience of leading a congregation at the epicenter of demonstrations and social unrest following the killing of George Floyd, the healing power of community, and the acts of mutual aid that transform us.

Last fall, 150 Bethlehemites participated in a small group initiative based on content written by Pastor Meta. I participated in one of those groups and found the experience to be life-giving. If you missed out, we’re launching a second round in a couple of weeks. Register here. And know that this seven-week series is a great way to meet and connect with other members of this community, deepening relationships that remembers we are always becoming together.

Pastor Mary

Small group online

January 27, 2021 – With Malice Toward None

In the Apostle Paul’s second letter to the church at Corinth, he builds on some of the same themes and addresses some of the same challenges that he addressed in his first letter. The church is divided. People were having difficulty seeing each other, working together, being the people that God called them to be. So he wrote this to them:

From now on, therefore, we regard no one from a human point of view; even though we once knew Christ from a human point of view, we know him no longer in that way. So if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation; that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting the message of reconciliation to us. So we are ambassadors for Christ, since God is making his appeal through us; we entreat you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.

Reconciliation isn’t easy work. In fact it’s incredibly hard work. As Paul outlines it involves death. It involves becoming new. It requires change. Over the past few years, Bethlehem member Bruce MacKenzie has been working with the organization Braver Angels to bring about change in how we engage with one another around the difficult and contentious work of being citizens. Braver Angels has been working on a newer initiative called With Malice Toward None (WMTN) initiative.

Bruce writes: This initiative is an effort to address these temptations and the dangers of further divisions and polarization within America. WMTN asks its participants to commit to a higher partisanship of Holding America Together, recognizing the importance of our shared civil life; and seeking to promote those feelings of goodwill that Lincoln called the “better angels of our nature.”

The goal is to humanize “the other side,” and call us back to our basic creeds to love one another and that our country was conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that all are equal. This is expressed in the pledge that asks all who participate in this initiative, regardless of the election’s outcome, they will not hold hate, disdain, or ridicule for those who may have voted differently.

With Bruce’s help, Braver Angels will be facilitating digital workshops at Bethlehem that will focus on promoting the initiative’s call to a higher partisanship. The first workshops will be separate gatherings. One on February 2 for those who are pleased with the election’s outcome, and one on February 4 for those who are distressed and preferred a different outcome.

A second workshop will be offered following these initial meetings. This workshop, at a date to be determined, will feature a gathering that brings both groups together to seek understanding of each other’s views and focusing on how we can move forward working together as members of a beloved community and citizens to address the problems facing our country.

For more information about With Malice Toward None and how Bethlehem will be working with Braver Angels on this initiative, you can contact either me or Bruce.

Pastor Ben

2021 Candidate Slates

Bethlehem’s Leadership Development Team has proposed two slates of candidates; one to serve on the 2021 Church Council and a second to serve on the 2021 Minnetonka Perpetual Trust. In accordance with our bylaws, the full slates of candidates have been posted outside the office area of both the Minneapolis and the Minnetonka campuses and are also listed below.

Church Council

By email vote between January 12–14, 2021, nine current Council members voted to approve the above slate with 0 no votes. All those on the slate have expressed a willingness to serve. 

The Leadership Development Team recommended the following slate for the Bethlehem Lutheran Church Twin Cities Church Council for 2021: 

  1. * John Helberg (President)
  2. * Lisa Hedden (Past President)
  3. * Lisa Johnson (Secretary) – Accepted second 2-year term
  4. Joe McCrae (Treasurer)
  5. Andrew Witt
  6. Val Johnson
  7. Nikki Sorem
  8. Lamar Newburn
  9. * Andy Kroll – Accepted second 2-year term
  10. * Nan Grube – Accepted, 2-year term
  11. * Elizabeth Appel – Accepted, 2-year term
  12. * Chris Hughes – Accepted, 2-year term
  13. * Joanne Ortendahl Lucas – Accepted, 2-year term

Minnetonka Perpetual Trust

By email vote between January 12–14, 2021, 10 Council members voted to approve seven candidates with 0 no votes. All those on the slate have expressed a willingness to serve. 

The Leadership Development Team also proposed the following slate of candidates for the Bethlehem Lutheran Church Twin Cities Minnetonka Perpetual Trust for 2021:

  1. Peter Haugen – Agreed to second term 
  2. Sandra Reiland – Agreed to a second term 
  3. Joe McRae 
  4. Steve Zelinski 
  5. Nancy Sorebo 
  6. Nan Peterson 
  7. Meta Herrick Carlson

* These candidates will be proposed for election at the February 28 annual meeting that will occur following the 10:15 am service.

Any questions should be directed to a member of the Council. We are grateful to these candidates for their willingness to serve on these respective governing bodies if elected!

January 19, 2021 – Welcome Pastor Heather!

This Sunday’s worship will include the installation of Pastor Heather Roth Johnson as Bethlehem’s Pastor of Family Ministry. Rev. Craig Pederson from the Minneapolis Area Synod will lead this part of the service in which we make promises to her and to one another about the work we’re called to do together.

The following week, we invite you to meet Pastor Heather via Zoom. Come to a conversation on Wednesday, January 27, 7:00 pm or on Sunday, January 31 following worship to learn more about her. Please register on our website to receive the Zoom link.

Watch the below video to learn something surprising about Pastor Heather. To learn even more be sure to attend one of the meet and greets.

Pastor Mary

January 12, 2021 – Finding Moments of Joy

Tomorrow evening at 6:30 pm we’ll be beginning a five-week worship experiment. Each week will be a little different. The format and flow will evolve. The texts and the prayers will shift. The musicians will vary. But one thing that I hope consistently emerges week after week is a sense of joy and delight.

Things are hard and heavy right now. Each new day seems to compound that. I feel it in my heart and in my bones. And yet, there are still moments of joy and beauty and hope. So I’m trying to help fasten our attention on those things so that we can know all the more clearly and certainly that they are worth slogging through everything else to experience.

God is a God of hope and joy. God shows up in the mess and the muck of life to move us from despair to joy, from death to new life. This is our story; this is our song. Join Humbird (Siri Undlin) and me tomorrow night as we search it out together.

Pastor Ben

January 8, 2021 – Our House

Dear Bethlehem,

In her book Caste, author Isabel Wilkerson, describes America as an old house with bowed ceilings. She writes: “We in the developed world are like homeowners who inherited a house on a piece of land that is beautiful on the outside, but whose soil is unstable loam and rock, heaving and contracting over generations, cracks patched but the deeper ruptures waved away for decades, centuries even.”

This past week we witnessed the crumbling of our nation’s house. Watching its desecration at the hands of fellow citizens has shaken us to our core in a year that continues to test our fortitude in ways we never imagined. Some are angry. Some are sad. Some are afraid. Some of us are feeling all of those things and more. Know that God holds you and whatever you’re feeling with mercy and grace. Know too, that as God’s beloved we cannot look away or ignore the evil that was on display.

As Jesus said in the gospel in the Gospel of Mark, And if a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. It is all the more critical in this divided time, that we work together to heal and to steward the home we’ve been given.

As people of faith, we have a responsibility to this place we call home and a duty to love and care for our neighbor–especially the most vulnerable among us. As people who confess that Jesus is Lord, we are called to embody Christ’s love in the world that others might experience through us the way of mercy and goodness.

This way of Love is not easy but God took on flesh and blood to show us how. Christ’s continued presence assures we are never alone.  Jesus walks with us, guides us, lifts us up when we stumble and fall. With his help, we can turn from the powers of sin, hatred, fear, injustice and oppression and be strengthened in our witness to do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with God.

May the strong love of Jesus take hold of our world and may God grant us wisdom and courage for the living of this hour. We hope that this prayer will be on your lips today and give your hands, your voice and your feet strength for the difficult work ahead.

Rise up and come to our help, merciful God, for we are in need. Our spirits are weighed down with fear; our bodies feel as fragile as the dust from which we came. All that we have trusted seems hidden from sight. Although this moment has come upon our nation, you have not forgotten us. We do not trust in our own power or strength, but in your steadfast love in every generation. Show us your face in this time of trial, remind us of your faithfulness, and save us for the sake of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. (All Creation Sings p. 49)

Mary and Ben

January 5, 2021 – Who Is Us?

Seth Godin, considered a thought leader by many, has a daily blog whose posts are usually short and thought provoking. I still reflect on a question he posed some time ago: “Who is us?” It comes to mind again at the start of a new year. He writes: “When you build a tribe or a movement, you’re asking people to join you. To become, ‘one of us.’ That means, though, you need to be really clear who ‘us’ is. Not just who am I joining, but what does it mean to be one of you?”

Becoming Together: Sharing in the work of God’s vision for a healed world is how Bethlehem Lutheran Church Twin Cities answers the “who is us” question. We are the church of Jesus who is listening, learning, changing and growing. We are God’s work in progress, forgiven and freed to be agents of God’s healing and wholeness.

Our work in 2020 included developing skills and awareness to be culturally aware community members in the change needed to move toward racial equity and inclusion for all of God’s people. This work is hard, necessary and ongoing. In January there are a couple of ways you can participate.

Beginning Monday, January 11, Pastor Kris will facilitate a 7-week class called, “Dialogues on Race” that will explore the historic relationship between racism and American Christianity. Please see the website to learn more and register.

On Sunday, January 17, Spirit Garage continues with their once-a-month sermon series called, “A Different Lens,” in which we can listen and learn from the voices and wisdom of people of color and/or queer faith leaders. You can watch on Facebook Live at 10:30 am AND you can also watch it as a recording, along with previous speakers.

Doing this work together is a bold witness to who we are as God’s beloved community rooted in the love revealed in Jesus Christ. Thank you for your partnership in our becoming together.

Peace –
Pastor Mary

Dialogues on Race

December 29, 2020 – We’re In It Together

One of the peculiar challenges this year is presenting, even in its final days, is that while this virus is impacting us all, the mounting isolation makes the world feel really small. There have been some weeks where I can count on my hand the number of times I’ve left my house. But there are ways that I feel more connected than ever. I have this persistent sense that we are bound together through all of this. It happens when I lead worship in the practically empty sanctuary. I feel you all there with me somehow. It happens when I hear stories of how you are keeping tabs on each other, praying for one another, helping buoy and support each other.

I know we are still the body of Christ, alive and active in this world. These past few weeks members of this community have continued to help our fellow siblings in Christ who are experiencing homelessness through Beacon’s Families Moving Forward program. It’s looked different than in years past, we aren’t hosting folks in our buildings. But we’re still providing meals each day, we’re giving Christmas gifts of Cub Foods cards to help families have a measure of independence. We’re still praying for them, and supporting Beacon’s ongoing work to help families move toward sustainable solutions.

In the coming days our Minnetonka team will take their turn at hosting in this unusual way. It’s not as visible. More of the work happens behind the scenes, but it’s happening. It’s happening because of your generosity, it’s happening because we are church together.

Please join me in giving thanks to God for the work of these two teams and celebrating that even apart we are still the church that God is calling us to be.

Pastor Ben

Beacon Families Moving Forward Update

December 15, 2020 – New Advent and Christmas Traditions

Dear Bethlehem — ‘Tis the season for forming new Advent and Christmas traditions! While we grieve the loss of familiar ways of celebrating this time of year, we do have an opportunity to imagine new ways to mark the season. I hope you and yours (think any age and beyond Bethlehem!) will participate in ALL of the following:

Trim the Tree:  Stop by either campus, any day, any time to donate an ornament to hang on the Bethlehem Christmas Tree. It will be a heartwarming sign that in faith we remain forever connected to God and to each other.

Light Your Face!  Send a photo of yourself holding a candle in a dimly lit room, one person per photo. If there’s more than one in your family, take a separate photo for each person. If you’re a solo act, ask a neighbor to take the picture, from six feet away of course. Send a photo by this Sunday December 20. All photos received will be part of our Christmas Eve Service.

Silent Night Sing: In partnership with NPR and Mount Olivet Lutheran Church, your pastors have imagined a nation-wide sing along! Join people across the nation on Thursday, December 24 at 6:30 pm CDT by tuning your radio to the local classical public radio station (99.5 in the Twin Cities). Then step outside your front door, light a candle, and get ready to sing. Invite your neighbors. Be a witness to the Light of Christ who lives among us.

This is a special season in a unique year. These rituals will help us as a community of faith. They will mark this moment in time with meaning and memories. I’m grateful for the blessing of becoming together!

Advent Blessings,
Pastor Mary

December 8, 2020 – Staffing Changes

Dear Bethlehem — In a year of change and ongoing uncertainty, we need to share with you two changes to our staff configuration. First is Steve Tjeltveit’s desire to retire early next year. Second is plans to redirect resources from our Sunday evening worship service and Michael McDeid’s departure at the end of this year.

We received the letter below last week from Steve Tjeltveit, Bethlehem’s Director of Administration. He will be missed and we are both deeply grateful for Steve’s leadership, passion and hard work these past two plus years. Please know that we will begin a search process as quickly as possible to ensure that there is as much overlap as possible to help with a smooth transition. A job description will be posted on the church’s website in the coming days.

Steve has promised to not be a stranger, especially when it’s not ski season. Similarly Steve will be helping us through the end of this year and positioning us well to begin 2021. So while we are sad, please join us in thanking Steve for all he’s given to Bethlehem.

Ben and Mary,
I’m writing to let you know that it’s time to make my life’s next transition. I’ve greatly enjoyed and been honored to be able to work with both of you, the staff and this congregation these last two plus years on staff and many more before that sitting out in the pew. That said, I have come to the realization over these past few months that it’s time for me to retire so that I can pursue some other things I’m passionate about and some yet to be discovered.

There are so many incredibly dedicated staff and members in this congregation who give so much to each other, the community and world. They will continue to inspire me to serve, learn and worship after some much needed time away.

I found a bumper sticker in my beloved Montana last year that says, “Lost in the Beartooths. Don’t Find Me”. I’m going to be doing a little more getting lost out west (figuratively, not literally) and in MN after my last day on 2/26/21. When I return, I know I will find my way back to this great community that I love.
— Steve Tjeltveit, Director of Administration

2020 will be remembered as a year of great loss. We’ve had to reimagine all that we do and how we do it. The pandemic has necessitated a season of trying things, learning, adjusting and trying again. We remain committed to directing the congregation’s generosity toward those things with the most potential for impact.

These last several months we’ve been paying attention to how many devices are tuning in for livestream worship and the average view length. The numbers remain consistently strong for the Sunday morning experience but since September the numbers for the 7:00 pm evening service have been on a steady decline. This reality has led us to the difficult decision to end the 7:00 pm worship experience. The last service will be on Sunday, December 20.

We grieve the impact this decision will have on the few who were part of the 7:00 pm worshipping community. We are sorry for the impact this decision has on Michael McDeid, worship leader, and the musicians who created a beautiful contemplative service. We will include a thank you, blessing and God speed for Michael as part of the service on the 20th, and we encourage individuals to reach out to him personally with their gratitude.

We pray for God’s continued presence in this season of hope amidst great uncertainty.

In Christ,
Mary and Ben

December 1, 2020 – Unexpected Gifts

Last week, I joined my husband at our cabin for a couple of days. One morning I awoke to an unusual, disturbing sound. It came from outside. I thought it was an animal in distress. I was surprised to discover something beautiful instead: seven Trumpeter swans swimming (I’m not kidding!) and singing in and among a gaggle of geese and an asylum of loons. Evidently our lake was a pit stop as they migrated south. Their presence was an unexpected gift to start my day. I was blessed.

On Sunday, Pastor Matt’s sermon reminded us that Advent is a season for waiting and watching. Traditionally, it’s also a season for giving. Inspired by the extravagant generosity of God who gave his son Jesus to the world, that all might be saved through him, we offer unexpected gifts that others might be blessed.

There is much about 2020 that’s been unusual and disturbing but opportunities for unexpected generosity always exist. This coming week I hope you’ll consider two in particular: Toys for Tots, an effort of our 5th & 6th grade Sunday School students to raise money to buy toys for kids who might not otherwise receive them for Christmas; and Families Moving Forward, a program that offers emergency shelter and a path to more stable housing. This year the Bethlehem community is providing financial support for meals, cleaning supplies and holiday gifts for two weeks in December and in January. Please go here to make your gift to these efforts that pool our resources and increase Bethlehem’s impact for good.

I’m incredibly grateful for all the ways you add beauty to the world. Through Bethlehem’s long history of generosity God blesses the world in more ways than we can know.

Advent Blessings,
Pastor Mary

November 24, 2020 – We’re grateful for you

Over 250 cars full of Bethlehem folks drove through our parking lots on Sunday afternoon. You brought food and money to share with our food shelves. You brought stories of survival and thriving during the pandemic. You brought tears and love for your church and for one another. It was good to see you. In this season of gratitude I am grateful for Bethlehem. I’m grateful for your emails and calls. I’m grateful for the ways the chat section on our YouTube channel has become a place of welcome and hospitality. I’m grateful that you are remembering your church and the work we’re called to be about.

Thank you, Bethlehem, for being a steadfast source of strength and encouragement during this tumultuous year. You continue to show up for me and for another as the church and I’m grateful for that. I’m grateful for you.

—Pastor Ben

November 17, 2020 – Advent video message from Pastor Mary

November 10, 2020 – Where in the World is Church?

In 1969, “Sesame Street” changed the rules of children’s television. It instantly became a sensation and has continued to educate and entertain children for generations. Back when I needed to monitor my kids’ screen time, this was the show that always made the short list of what my kids watched.

We’ve had to change all kinds of rules this past year. There’s grief in losing familiar ways of doing things. There’s also joy in discovering new ways of learning, connecting and gathering. I desperately miss the buzz in our buildings on Sunday mornings. I look forward to when that happens again. In the meantime, I’m excited by how Bethlehem’s Sunday School is evolving even as its purpose of passing on the faith to our children remains the same.

If you haven’t seen “Where in the world is church?” I encourage you to watch last week’s episode. It’s created to educate and entertain our children but the lessons and format nurtures adult faith too. Reporter Ron shows up every time asking a question that relates to who we are as church. To find the answer, he gets help from others in the community. You’ll delight in how all ages discover together important facets of our faith. I encourage you to make these weekly 15-minute episodes part of your short list for staying connected to church. The link for the current episode is always included in Bethlehem’s Saturday email. I hope you’ll also share the link with your children, grandchildren, neighbors and friends.

We may not be able to gather in our sanctuaries but our calling to invite and welcome others into a relationship with God through Jesus Christ continues.

Thanks for being church!
Pastor Mary

November 3, 2020 – Election Day

Hopefully by the time you receive this email, you will have voted. If you haven’t yet, there is likely still time so please do. Now, having done our civic duty, we wait. It’s the one thing that we will all do, regardless for whom we cast our vote. And in that time of waiting, and oneness, I’d encourage us to remember that we are one people. Regardless of the forces and people that try to divide us, we are one.

In the beatitudes from Luke’s gospel, Jesus said, “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you.”

Love and blessing and prayer help us to refrain from seeing one another as us and them. It’s why we’re inviting you to join us for a time of reflection, scripture, song and prayer after the vote. This worship experience will be shared on Wednesday at 7:00 pm. You can find details below.

On Thursday, there is another installment of Bold Conversations, where we will have a post-vote debrief called, Making Sense and Making Peace: How our reactions impact diversity, equity, and inclusion. Details and registration can be found below.

Then finally, in the coming weeks Bethlehem will be participating in the Braver Angels With Malice Toward None (“WMTN”) initiative. This initiative is an effort to address these temptations and the dangers of further divisions and polarization within America. WMTN asks its participants to commit to a higher partisanship of maintaining our Union, recognizing the importance of our shared civil life; and seeks to promote those feelings of goodwill that Lincoln called the “better angels of our nature.”

The goal is to humanize “the other side,” and call us back to our basic creeds to love one another and that our country was conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that all are equal. This is expressed in the pledge that asks all who participate that regardless of the election’s outcome, they will not hold hate, disdain, or ridicule those who may have voted differently. Please consider signing the pledge available at Braver Angels website.

Braver Angels will be facilitating workshops at Bethlehem after Election Day once the outcome is clear. We will update our website as details become available. For more information on this initiative you can contact me or Bruce MacKenzie.

Thanks and God be close,
Pastor Ben

October 27, 2020 – Are We There Yet?

When our kids were young we made yearly trips to Montana to visit family. The kids’ litany for the 16hr drive was predictable: “Are we there yet?” The record for shortest time on the road before these words were uttered? 13 minutes. The trip was always long and also worth the effort.

As we get ready to turn the page on October, we’re almost “there” for 2020. Can I get a hallelujah! We recently sent giving statements. Let us know if you haven’t received it. Giving remained very strong throughout the summer. We’re incredibly grateful.

The fall has been very different from our usual patterns and we’ve noticed the impact on usual giving patterns too. Please know that your generosity allows Bethlehem to keep its commitments to mission partners, our neighborhoods and congregants. Your continued financial commitment is needed for us to end the year strong.

On September 13, we launched two campaigns at once: Reach Forward in Faith (annual) to Build a Future with Hope (3-year capital). We’re excited to share that we’re halfway to our goal of $2 million for the capital campaign and 35% for the annual campaign. We’ve made great progress. We still have some distance to go. We know meeting the goal will be worth the effort. If you haven’t yet joined the adventure, there’s room for you. Know that your gift makes a difference.

God calls Bethlehem to think big and act boldly in Jesus’ name. Because of your investment in Bethlehem’s mission we’re able to say “yes” to God’s invitation and share in the work of God’s vision for a healed world, accomplishing more together than any one person can accomplish alone.

Thanks for your partnership!

Pastor Mary